Good Evening guys,
So recently I had the pleasure of interviewing a lady who recently got some disturbing news about a close family member
I realize that among my listeners, some of you will instant critcize her while others will be more understanding....Happy listening, and as usual comments are welcome
Good Aftenoon My Fellow Introverts,
Have you ever had to fight?
As in really had to fight to survive?
I'm sure that many of you at some point, would've had to - whether it be mentally, physically or otherwise...
Today, a colleague of mine will share the story of Tom with you
Again, the names are made up, but the problems are real
Now that you have listened to Tom's ordeal, how do you think you would have coped in such a situation?
Looking forward to hearing from you
MDSaga signing out
Good Afternoon My Fellow Introverts,
Today, I would like to tell you the story of Brenda, a spirited 12-year-old girl with dreams as vast as the open sky, and a journey which would forever alter the course of her life....
And mine.....
Please note that the names are made up, but the problems are real
As always, your comments /questions are welcomed
Until next time
MDSaga signing out
Good Afternoon My Fellow Introverts,
Today we will be touching on an issue that is swept under the rug quite a bit:
Discrimination in medicine
It is my guess that you are thinking that we'll be discussing: either health care worker vs health care worker, or male versus female...
But no... have you ever thought about patients discriminating against physicians?
Please have a listen to the following interview with a colleague of mine (who is a remarkable physician) and her personal experiences.
I would love to hear your thoughts/ feelings on the matter !!
MDSaga signing out
Hello listeners,
I am actually at a lost for an interesting and engaging introduction for the following podcast !!
But if I were to sum it up in one word, I would have to say...
Turmoil
If you have any suggestions, advice, or words of wisdom...
Please, please share
What would you say if someone asked you to choose?
Animals versus people?
Which one would you vote for and why?
This is my answer...but I am interested in what you think!!
Am I just biased?
Good Morning My Fellow Introverts,
Today, I would like to divulge perhaps one of my most unsettling experiences,to date, as a health care worker
Lessons-learned-in-the-ER_28980674_1701351504.mp3
But let this be a lesson to you as well!!
Be aware...predators do exist!
Until next time
MDSaga signing out!!
Hey guys,
This post is mainly for all those parents / guardians out there that are responsible for teenagers or pre-teens !!
Do you ever wish that you can understand - WHY?
Why is it that every interaction with this child seems to be a battle, a fight or some type of conflict?
Well, my friends, just have a listen to this podcast, where we interview a very well-spoken young man!
Just hear his perspective on this...
Enjoy!!
Good Afternoon My Fellow Introverts,
Hats off to Incognito for the podcast idea. It was definitely a stroke of genius!!
I will certainly follow her lead....
Today, I would like to discuss violence in the Emergency Room (ER).
Did you know that a recent survey done in the US showed that out of 100 doctors working in the ER , 78% of them had experienced an episode of workplace violence in the prior year?
Shocking? Not to me... Having been in this field for years
I will let you in on a terrifying incident that happened to me
Fighting for my life at work.mp3
So next time you visit an ER, be mindful of what we go through on a daily basis
Until next time,
MDSaga signing out !!
Following my last blog "Escaping A Narcissist's Web", I've received countless messages, emails, and comments from readers like you, hungry for more details about my harrowing experience....
But I've decided to change the format of my next post.
So here it is - the podcast you've been waiting for...
Sucking the life out of me like a vampire.mp3
Enjoy !!
Narcissism is a term that is often thrown around in everyday conversation. But I am going to provide a definition, just to ensure that we are all on the same page. Narcissism is a personality trait that is characterized by a grandiose sense of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of empathy.
As I discovered personally, persons who become involved with a narcissist often find themselves navigating a treacherous emotional landscape.
My journey with this particular narcissist was an experience that shook the very foundation of my self-worth.
This person was in actual fact my ex husband, and initially I believed that he was sweet and caring but litlle by litlle I realized that he had an insatiable hunger for control and dominance. Our relationship of 18 years, can only be described as an emotional rollercoaster, with moments of intense charm and affection juxtaposed with outbursts of demeaning behavior. Despite being on a path to success in college, with promising prospects, I found myself subjected to belittlement and derogatory remarks. His words cut deep, undermining my confidence and casting a shadow over my accomplishments. The emotional abuse gradually escalated into physical aggression, leaving scars that were not only physical but also deeply psychological.
Understanding the nature of a narcissist's behavior requires a closer look at the intricacies of their psyche. Often, beneath the facade of unwavering self-assurance lies a fragile ego, easily threatened by any perceived challenge. Their inflated sense of self-importance serves as a shield against their deep-seated insecurities, leading them to manipulate and control others to maintain their perceived superiority.
For those ensnared in a relationship with a narcissist, the toll on mental health and emotional well-being can be immense. Gaslighting, manipulation, and the constant erosion of self-worth become the norm, fostering a state of perpetual self-doubt. The toxicity of the relationship can bleed into all aspects of life, hindering personal growth and causing emotional distress.
Escaping the clutches of a narcissistic relationship is a daunting endeavor, often requiring strength, resilience, and support. The journey toward liberation begins with recognizing the patterns of abuse and acknowledging the need for change. Seeking guidance from a therapist or a support group can provide invaluable insights and a safe space to process emotions and regain confidence.
My own escape from the narcissist was a slow and arduous process. It involved setting firm boundaries, finding support in friends. Over time, I discovered the importance of self-care, self-compassion, and the power of reclaiming my autonomy.
Breaking free from the clutches of a narcissist is a testament to one's resilience and strength. It's a journey of self-discovery, a path toward healing, and a reclamation of personal power. While scars may linger, the experience serves as a catalyst for growth and a newfound appreciation for inner strength.
For those of you that are currently involved with someone like this, I know that it may seem like an impossible mountain to climb, but trust me when I say that you can escape. If I can do it, so can you. It may have taken me 18 years but in the end, I did triumph, and now I am in a much better place. My biggest regret is that his words, and action also affected our innocent daughter.
One day, I will tell you my story...but that's it for me today
Good Afternoon My Fellow Intoverts
In the realm of medicine, there exist various challenges that test the boundaries of human resilience and compassion. Among these, few things are as distressing and emotionally taxing as confronting cases of non-accidental injuries inflicted upon innocent children. The haunting nature of such instances reveals the darker side of humanity, leaving healthcare professionals grappling with the weight of these traumatic events.
In the confines of a bustling emergency room,a harrowing tale unfolds that shakes the foundation of even the most seasoned medical staff...
Imagine this: a young boy who is estimated to be approximately 5 or 6 years old, is dropped off at the doors of the emergency room by an unknown individual. He has clearly been battered and beaten and is on the brink of death. He is unconscious, with an unrecordable blood pressure. His frail body bearing the brutal marks of abuse—a broken femur, multiple shattered ribs, a ruptured spleen and as if this is not enough - a severe bleed in the brain. Despite the tireless and relentless efforts of the medical team - nurses, emergency physicians, paediatric surgeons, neurosurgeons the boy succumbs to his injuries within 6 hours of presentation.
This heart-wrenching incident is by no means an isolated case. Another child, a mere toddler, becomes a pawn in a domestic altercation, used as a human shield in a tumultuous confrontation between parents. In an attempt to protect herself from harm, the mother subjected the child to severe physical trauma. The consequence: multiple fractures and an hematoma and swelling in the brain. The little one is now left fighting for survival in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit (PICU), his tiny body bearing the brunt of adult conflicts.
The innocence of these young victims starkly contrasts with the abhorrent cruelty inflicted upon them. Their helplessness and vulnerability, coupled with the deliberate harm inflicted upon them, elicit an indescribable mix of emotions—outrage, sorrow, and an overwhelming desire to seek justice for the voiceless.
For medical professionals, addressing cases of child abuse presents an excruciating paradox. While bound by the duty to remain composed and offer the best care possible, the emotional toll is undeniable. Witnessing such suffering challenges the very core of one's being.
Another day in the life of a emergency room doc
Until next time
MDSaga signing out
Maybe as a kid I was too sheltered, but I honestly do not remember meeting the word overthinking, until way into adulthood.
Initially, I thought that it may have been a colloquial term but after some research, I realize that it can be found in the Oxford, Collins, and Merriam- Webster dictionaries.
It is an expression that has become increasingly popular in recent years, and for good reason.
Overthinking, as the name suggests, is the act of thinking excessively or dwelling too long on a thought, idea, problem, or decision. It often involves analyzing situations from multiple angles, considering numerous "what if" scenarios, and ruminating on past events or future possibilities. While some level of contemplation is essential for making informed decisions, overthinking takes it to an extreme, leading to mental and emotional distress.
For those of you who are not afflicted by this malady, let me give you an example. Your boss says to you one day “I am very impressed you actually gave a good talk”. And you immediately start thinking – What does he mean by ACTUALLY gave a good talk? I give presentations to my team weekly, aren’t they usually good? Is he being condescending? Why did he have to say it in front of the other staff? Are they laughing at me behind my back? Is it because I don’t have an MBA why he thinks he can talk down to me like that? Is it because I’m black? Is it because I’m a woman?
Unhealthy consequences:
Breaking Free from Overthinking
The good news is that overthinking is not necessarily a permanent state, and there are ways to break free from this cycle. Here are some strategies to help you manage overthinking:
Overthinking is a common but often unhealthy habit that can have a significant impact on your life. Recognizing its presence is the first step toward managing and overcoming it. Remember, it's okay to take a step back and simplify your thought process – sometimes, less really is more.
Good Afternoon My Fellow Introverts
Today, I would like to explore the world of psychiatry....
The human brain is a very complex organ to say the least. It is believed that the average male has approximately 171 billion brain cells. Psychiatry is a medical specialty which focuses on the diagnosis and management of disorders of this intricate and complicated structure.
Now, my next statement may be controversial but, based on my observation and experience, psychiatry is not an exact science. There is no objective means of testing to confirm a diagnosis.
Let me explain further.... if a patient comes to the hospital with a swollen hand after trauma, a clinician may suspect that it is broken. An x-ray can then be performed to confirm whether or not there is a fracture. However, this is not the case with psychiatry. Diagnoses are essentially made by talking to the patient, their relatives and observing the patient's behaviour. But there is one huge problem with this - people can be deceitful. They can also pretend or feign their demeanors.
As usual, I have a story to support my comments
During my training, I had to rotate through the psychiatric service. On day 1, I was asked to take over the care of a 24 year old patient who had been admitted to the ward three weeks earlier but had improved significantly. His story was that three weeks prior, he had confided in a dermatologist who was treating him for an leg ulcer that he had the desire to murder his girlfriend and then kill himself. However, he hadn't performed the act because his girlfriend had been at her job that day, so he had no access to her, hence he just kept his appointment at the clinic. The dermatologist was immediately alarmed and called the psychiatry team who diagnosed him as having major depression with suicidal and homicidal ideations. He was subsequently admitted and commenced on antidepressants and intense psychotherapy.
By the time I inherited him, I was told that he had made a complete 180 turn. He was now very upbeat, and had been leading prayer and group sessions with the other patients. I can clearly recall my first interaction with him. He seemed quite happy, and said he was eating and sleeping well. He stated that he was quite anxious to be released so that he could see his 2 year old son, and be a father to him. Over the next two weeks, this gentleman continued to be the perfect patient. He was interviewed daily, not only by myself, but by the chief resident and the attending (senior doctors), and we all thought that he was doing well.
We determined that he was fit for release at the end of his fifth week. He was picked up by his brother and he was so thankful and cheerful going through the doors.
Well, my friends.....surprise, surprise....we got a call from his brother later that day to say that the patient had intentionally drowned himself. He had written a letter, apologizing for the agony that he was going to cause, but had stated that the pain inside was too much, and had been going on for far too long.
So, essentially....for the better part of a month, this gentleman pretended that he had improved mentally. He told us what he knew we wanted to hear as part of his plan to be released, so that he could finally end his life. He had easily deceived multiple medical professionals, and why do you think that is? Because there was no objective method of confirming his thoughts or feelings.
From that day on, it has been my unwavering belief that Psychiatry is Hokum, and will remain so until we invent a device that is able to decipher a person's thoughts, feelings and behaviours
Until next time
MDsaga signing out
I am obsessed with true crime documentaries. This perverse (yes, I admit that it is not quite 100% normal) obsession started many years ago. One morning I was at home flipping through some channels on my cable, and came across a show called Snapped. Now, I don't know if you guys are familiar with it but it is an American based non-fiction series which was originally broadcasted on the Oxygen network. It featured the stories of convicted persons who either attempted or committed murder, for a variety of reasons. The usual culprits were infidelity, physical/emotional abuse or life insurance money. Unfortunately, the target of the crime was frequently the spouse.
After watching the first 10 minutes of episode one, I was CAPTIVATED. I then proceeded to binge watch episode after episode after episode, and before I knew it, it was night and I had watched at least 40 of them. It was as if I was coming out of a daze. I was so in love 
And to date, I continue to watch, listen, read everything I can about true crime cases.
So recently, my mind has been trying to figure out what would drive an individual to perform such atrocities to humanity. I honestly, do not believe that the majority of persons in the world are truly psycholic. I think that many times, there is an explanation behind an action.
I am sure that most, if not all of you have heard about the infamous Jeffrey Dahmer who was labelled a serial killer and sex offender. He admitted to murdering 17 males between 1978 and 1991. Apart from the fact that he killed multiple person, I think that the main reason, he became so well known is the fact that he indulged in necrophilia and cannabilism.
Even though, some may argue that this source is not always 100% reliable, if you want to read a synopsis of his life, please click on the following link: Jeffrey Dahmer
I think that some of his actions later in life may have arisen from issues that developed in his formative year. He was the product of two parents who at the time were more focused on their lives, and pretty much ignored him. This would have certainly led to feelings of desolation and abandonment. In high school he was also regarded as an outcast. He likely turned to alcohol as a means of coping with his awkwardness and alienation. People are meant to have other human beings around (sometimes). No one loves to be truly alone day after day after day. If feelings of aloneness can lead to depression and suicide, I am sure that they can have a negative effect on a young impressionable mind. I believe that these feelings haunted him throughout his early life and into adulthood. And this may be why he unfortunately repeatedly ended the lives of these young men. He wanted someone who would be always there, who would not be repulsed by him and leave him. He even went as far as to try to incapacitate some of them by injecting hydrochloric acid and boiling water into their brains, so that he could have a companion who he could control. One who would have no choice but to stay with him. This desire to have people around who would remain with him, is also evidenced by the fact that he hoarded the body parts of his victims. So that he could take them out and reminisce at a later date. Jeffrey's way of seeking out love and companionship was definitely unnatural and demented but I daresay, the intent was understandable.
I realize that I this post is not awarding me any popularity points. And don't misunderstand me, I am not excusing or supporting his actions, I am simply saying that pehaps, there was a reason (no matter how deranged) behind his acts. Or maybe the reason I kinda understand is that I might have been a serial killer in a previous life
In today's world, the pursuit of beauty has become an all-encompassing phenomenon. It seems as though we are constantly bombarded with images and messages that emphasize the importance of looking beautiful. This obsession with beauty has given rise to multimillion-dollar industries, including cosmetics, fashion, and cosmetic/reconstructive surgery (aka plastic surgery). But why are we so enthralled by beauty, and why does being called beautiful or handsome make us feel so good? The majority of us, if we are being truthful, would admit that we do get a little tingle inside or instantly smile when we hear those words
Lets delve into these questions and explore the complex relationship between society and beauty.
The Multimillion-Dollar Beauty Industries
1. The Cosmetic Industry
The cosmetic industry is one of the largest and most profitable sectors in the world. It encompasses a wide range of products, from makeup and skincare to haircare and fragrances. According to Statista (a German based data collection platform), the global cosmetic market was valued at over $500 billion in 2020, and this number continues to grow steadily.
The allure of cosmetics lies in their transformative power. Makeup allows individuals to enhance their features, hide imperfections, and express their creativity. It has become a form of self-expression, enabling people to craft their desired image and boost their self-confidence.
2. The Fashion Industry
Fashion is another behemoth in the beauty landscape. It revolves around clothing, accessories, and style trends that change seasonally. The global fashion industry was estimated to be worth around $1.5 trillion in 2020, making it a colossal economic force.
Fashion is not merely about covering the body but also about projecting an image. What we wear often reflects our personality, aspirations, and the image we want to convey to the world. It is an industry that thrives on the ever-evolving concept of beauty, offering a constant stream of new styles and trends.
3. The Plastic Surgery Industry
The plastic surgery industry is perhaps the most direct manifestation of our beauty obsession. It involves surgical and non-surgical procedures aimed at altering one's appearance. The industry's global market size was estimated to be over $45 billion in 2020, and it continues to expand.
Plastic surgery offers the promise of physical transformation, allowing individuals to change their facial features, body shape, and even reverse the effects of aging. While some turn to plastic surgery for medical reasons, many do it for cosmetic enhancement, driven by the desire to conform to societal beauty standards.
Why Do We Feel Good When Called Beautiful?
One of the most intriguing aspects of our beauty obsession is the emotional response we experience when someone tells us that we are beautiful. This feeling of joy and validation is deeply ingrained in our psychological and social makeup.
1. Social Validation: Being called beautiful often carries a sense of social validation. It implies that we meet or exceed the standards of attractiveness set by our culture. In a world that places a high value on beauty, this validation can boost our self-esteem and sense of belonging.
2. Positive Self-Image: Compliments about our appearance can contribute to a positive self-image. Feeling beautiful can lead to increased self-confidence, which can have a positive ripple effect on various aspects of our lives.
3. Evolutionary Psychology: From an evolutionary perspective, our desire to be considered beautiful may be rooted in the need to attract mates. Throughout human history, attractiveness has been linked to reproductive success, making beauty a desirable trait.
The world's obsession with beauty has given rise to multimillion-dollar industries that shape our daily lives. Cosmetics, fashion, and plastic surgery have become integral parts of our pursuit of beauty and self-expression. While these industries offer transformative potential, they also reflect the complex interplay between societal standards and individual desires.
Feeling good when called beautiful is a testament to the power of beauty in our lives. It is a reminder of the significance of social validation and the enduring human desire to be seen as attractive. As we navigate this beauty-obsessed world, it's essential to remember that beauty comes in many forms, and true self-worth goes beyond appearances......Doesn't it?
The one thing that I appreciate most in life is the fact that I have been blessed with a child.
Well, I probably shouldn't refer to her as a 'child' anymore, she is a young adult. She is an intelligent, beautiful, talented 23 year old woman. And honestly, at every single stage in her life up to this point, she has been more accomplished than I have been or ever could be, simply because I do not have her abilities or intellect. And no, I am not just saying this as a proud or biased parent. I am just stating clean, unadulterated facts.
This young lady has survived despite the fact that her dad and I messed her up mentally. It was unintentional but undeniable. I will leave the details of this for a subsequent post but in summary - excessive pressure in school, not encouraging her to have a life outside of her studies, me focussing on my work and not raising her, our separation, our divorce, her father having either a personality or a mental disorder, and being the one to raise her primarily because her mom was MIA, and the list goes on.....
Sometimes I like to sit and reminisce about how happy, talkative, and friendly she was as a child....but this was before she transitioned into a withdrawn teenager who was subsequetly diagnosed with clinical depression. Even though her mental health challenges have continued into adulthood, she tries to be okay. Tries being the operative word
What is the point of my story?
It is simple:
Raising a kid well is not as easy or straightforward as it may seem. Do NOT have a child if you are not financially or mentally prepared. Do NOT have a child if your living environment and support system is not conducive or suitable.
Take it from me, children are not as tenacious as you may think. Of course, everyone is different but young minds can be quite delicate and fragile. And trust me - you do not want to be the one responsible (whether partially or fully) for damaging your own offspring. They do not need that, this world is heartless enough on it's own.
I have a confession...I am a people watcher.
I must admit that It gives me pleasure to just sit and observe persons in their environment. How they relate to others, their antics, behaviours, emotions and interactions. So chances are, if you are at the airport, a shopping mall or the supermarket, and you feel a pair of eyes on you, it may just be me. Or, it could be a stalker......
(I'm just saying)
I do not pretend to be a psychologist, psychiatrist or any kind of mental health professional, but what I have observed is that the average person just wants to be happy. Even if it's only for a few seconds or minutes. Even if it results in actions that are potentially selfish or can cause self-harm. We will practically do anything for the release of those chemical neurotransmitters (dopamine and seotonin) in the brain, which scientist discovered allow us to feel pleasure.
This is why people smoke.....Everyone knows how dangerous smoking is. Everyone knows that it can lead to heart disease, stroke, kidney disease, lung cancer, bladder cancer, emphysema etc etc...but...all our only interest is the realease of those neurotransmitters. No matter how short-lived it is.
This is why people use cocaine, drink alcohol, have sex, bungee jump, exercise, dance, watch comedies, eat chocolate and the list goes on and on and on. I would even go as far as to say, it is likely why serial killers go after their prey. It's the excitement and happiness that they feel before / during or after the act. Nevermind, it may be viewed as being perverse, by the general populace.
Is it possible that we are all self-centered individuals, just searching for that next 'high' so we can feel good for a few precious minutes?
Good Morning My Fellow Introverts,
I suspect that we have all heard of physician assisted suicide aka (also known as) death with dignity aka medical aid in dying aka physician assisted death. This process goes by many names, but regardless of the term used, the whole idea behind it is this - a doctor who is caring for a terminally ill patient hastens their imminent death through the use of medications prescribed for that purpose.
Of course, there legal requirements such as, the patient must be 18 years and over, with less than 6 months to live, has the mental capacity to make their own medical decisions, and is not suffering form mental health issues, must live in a place where it is practiced etc etc. I do not mean to bore you with details. It is a very controversial topic which has ethical and religious implications, but irrespective of whether or not you agree with the procdeure, if you are being true to yourself, the majority of us will understand it.
Imagine that you are terminally ill and suffering every minute of every day. It's only natural that you will want it to stop. Be honest, if medical aid in dying is an option, you will consider it.
But that's not really my focus today. My big question, is what do you think about physicians that do not attempt to intervene in the impending deaths of patients who are a threat to the community. So let me explain what I mean. My medical school training occurred in a country where there was (and still is) a lot of violence. There were numerous gangs that mutilated and killed countless innocent people daily. And one day, one of the well-known gang leaders was brought into the Emergency Room suffering from a gun shot wound to the chest. I was too junior at the time, to objectively ascertain the severity of his injuries. So there is no way, I can stay here and say for sure that prompt and appropriate medical intervervention would have saved his life. But what I can say to you is that we will never know. The senior doctor placed this gentleman in a back room, locked the door, and proceeded to treat other persons that were injured in the incident. I could not believe what I was seeing, so after a few minutes I spoke up and asked him why. To which he responded, 'I have just saved the lives of over 50 people today alone, not to mention tomorrow, next week and next year!"
I did not know what to think or how to respond. After about 2 hours, this medical professional calmly unlocked the door and pronounced the gang leader dead.
My question to you is, was this physician right or wrong? Did I witness a murder?
And honestly my feeling about it is this : Just like in physician assisted suicide, I can kinda understand. I can kinda understand his reasoning and actions. But they were wrong. It is not for us to decide someone's fate. We are here to save lives. We have all taken an oath, so abide by it. If the patient so happens to live through the ordeal, it is then up to those in law enforcement to bring him to justice. And yes, I do know about the issues and corruption that exist in the law, but, physicans should not be vigilantes (like Robin Hood)
What are your thoughts?
Until next time
MDSaga signing out
So, a few days ago, I was having a discussion with an old friend of mine about my self proclaimed introversion, and he said something which startled me....
And I quote, 'But Incognito, I don't really see you as an introvert. When we were in college, you were the one who would go to all the parties and dance up a storm with different people. You were the one who would be out front and center on the dance floor !!"
This stopped me in my tracks and made me say.....hmmmmm.....I have to admit I do love a good party where I can dance to good music and work up a sweat, but.....there needs to be lots of people around, so I can be lost in the crowd.
I also don't mind giving a presentation (sometimes). Let me explain. In my line of work, sometimes I am tasked with having to give powerpoint talks. But there are two essential steps that MUST occur before I am able to do this successfully
1)I have to ensure that I start my preparation for the talk weeks or preferably months before
2) I have to rehearse it over and over and over and over and over again (until i know it without having to look at the slides)
On the day of the presentation, I am ALWAYS a nervous wreck. During the walk to the podium, I am usually drenched with sweat, and my hands are shaking, cold and clammy. When I start to speak, many times my vision goes blurry and I feel nauseated. My voice may quiver for the first few lines. But then I usually take off my shoes (to get comfortable....Yes I hate wearing shoes), and I focus on a spot in the distance, and then as if by magic, I relax and the information flows out of me. And as a matter of fact, I have been congratulated on my prowess at delivering exceptional speeches. However, if something happens that throws me off, for example, if someone asks a difficult question that I am not prepared for, I become a jittery ball of jelly, once more.
So, the question exist, could it be that I am not 100% an introvert? Maybe
So I decided to do some research to see if varying degrees of introversions exist.
And my friends, I don't know if you know this but I have just discovered that introversion and extroversion are on a spectrum and there is such a thing as an ambivert, that lies between the two. The offical definition according to the Oxford English Dictionary is that an amivert is a person who exhibits a balance of extrovert and introvert tendencies or traits.
However, I wouldn't personally say that I have a balance, I may lie between the two extremes, but I trend towards the introversion end.
Where do you fall?
