Following my last blog "Escaping A Narcissist's Web", I've received countless messages, emails, and comments from readers like you, hungry for more details about my harrowing experience....
But I've decided to change the format of my next post.
So here it is - the podcast you've been waiting for...
Sucking the life out of me like a vampire.mp3
Enjoy !!
Comments
It is really sad that there are people in this world that takes pleasure out of other people's pain. But it sounds like somewhere deep inside you knew what this guy was up to no good. So I have to ask, why did you marry him, and probably more importantly, why did you have a child with him? This means that he will always be a part of your life as long as there is a child involved
I have thought long and hard about your question, and even after 1 week, i do not think that I fully understand all of the whys. The conception of our daughter was not planned, but that being said, she is one if not the best things that have happned in my life. And if I had to do it again, yes I would just to have her in my life.
But the question, as to why I married him, I think the answer is multifactoral. The first things that come to mind - 1) I had been with him for many years and being with him was the only life I knew. 2) i wanted my daughter to grow up with a father figure, just like I had 3) I thought that he may have changed eventually, becasue at times, he could be nice 4) i was probably suffering from low self esteem issues. i'm sure there is more to it, but tht's all I can think of currently.